Disertasi ini membahas tentang Parenting orang tua buruh pabrik rokok di Kabupaten Kudus dalam menumbuhkan karakter religius anak. Buruh pabrik rokok di Kabupaten Kudus mayoritas perempuan yang membantu suami mencukupi perekonomian keluarga. Hal itu mengharuskan mereka mengalihkan pengasuhan anak anaknya pada orang lain. Berdasarkan latarbelakang tersebut tujuan penelitian ini adalah pertama mengetahui parenting orang tua buruh pabrik rokok di Kabupaten Kudus dalam menumbuhkan karakter religius anak. Kedua menggali aspek aspek yang mempengaruhi parenting orang tua buruh pabrik rokok di Kabupaten Kudus. Ketiga menganalisa implikasi parenting yang diterapkan orang tua buruh pabrik rokok dalam menumbuhkan karakter religius anak di Kabupaten Kudus.
Penelitian ini berjenis feild research dengan pendekatan kualitatif fenomenologi. Sumber data dalam penelitian adalah ibu-ibu buruh pabrik rokok di Kabupaten Kudus yang memiliki anak usia sekolah yaitu 6 sampe 18 tahun. Pemilihan sumber data menggunakan purposiv sampling. Teknik pengumpulan data wawancara, observasi dan dokumentasi. Teknis analisis data menggunakan reduksi data, display data dan conclusion drawing.
Temuan penelitian adalah parenting orang tua buruh pabrik rokok di Kabupaten Kudus dalam menumbuhkan karakter religius anak yaitu menanamkan nilai-nilai agama pada anak dilingkungan keluarga dengan cara melatih, membiasakan, memberikan contoh teladan, menasehati, menghukum anak serta menyekolahkan anak pada lembaga pendidikan Islam. Sedangkan pola pengasuhan yang dilakukan oleh orang tua dalam keluarga terdapat 4 pola yaitu, demokratis, otoriter, permisif dan transaksi dengan metode Reward dan punishment.
Penerapan parenting yang berbeda dipengaruhi oleh beberapa aspek yaitu pertama aspek pendidikan orang tua buruh pabrik rokok. Kedua aspek latar belakang dan budaya orang tua. ketiga aspek system religi yang dianut keluarga. keempat aspek lingkungan masyarakat.
Parenting orang tua buruh pabrik rokok yang berbeda memunculkan implikasi yang berbeda yaitu pertama parenting demokratis berimplikasi anak lebih kompeten dengan karakter religius yang kuat. Kedua parenting otoriter berimplikasi anak cenderung menarik diri, penakut dan kurang percaya diri, berkarakter religius cenderung gampang goyah. Ketiga parenting permisif berimplikasi anak kurang memiliki kedewasaan berfikir karena kurangnya pendampingan nasehat dan gemblengan orang tua, berkarakter religius yang lemah dan negatif, Keempat parenting transaksi (Reward and ounnishment) berimplikasi karakter religius anak lebih kompetitif dan lebih bertanggung jawab terhadap semua tugas tugasnya dalam menjalankan nilai nilai agama dan cenderung berorientasi pada reward dan punishment.

ABSTRACT:
This dissertation discusses the parenting of parents of cigarette factory workers in Kudus Regency in cultivating their children's religious character. The majority of cigarette factory workers in Kudus Regency are women who help their husbands provide for the family financially. This requires them to transfer the care of their children to someone else. Based on this background, the aim of this research is first to find out the parenting of parents of cigarette factory workers in Kudus Regency in cultivating children's religious character. Second, exploring aspects that influence the parenting of parents of cigarette factory workers in Kudus Regency. Third, analyze the parenting implications applied by parents of cigarette factory workers in cultivating children's religious character in Kudus Regency.
This research is field research with a qualitative phenomenological approach. The data source in the research is mothers who work at cigarette factories in Kudus Regency who have school age children, namely 6 to 18 years. The selection of data sources used purposive sampling. Data collection techniques are interviews, observation and documentation. Data analysis techniques use data reduction, data display and conclusion drawing.
The research findings are the parenting of cigarette factory workers in Kudus Regency in cultivating children's religious character by instilling religious values in children in the family environment by training, getting used to, providing role models, advising, punishing children and sending children to Islamic education institutions. Meanwhile, there are 4 patterns of parenting carried out by parents in the family, namely, democratic, authoritarian, permissive, and transactions using the Reward and Punishment method.
The application of different parenting is influenced by several aspects, namely the first aspect of the education of parents of cigarette factory workers. Both aspects of the parents' background and culture. three aspects of the religious system adopted by the family. four aspects of the community environment.
Parenting by different parents of cigarette factory workers gives rise to different implications, namely, firstly, democratic parenting implies that children are more competent with a strong religious character. Secondly, authoritarian parenting has the implication that children tend to be withdrawn, timid and lack self-confidence, religious characters tend to be easily shaken. Third, permissive parenting implies that the child lacks maturity in thinking due to a lack of parental guidance and advice, has a weak and negative religious character. Fourth, transactional parenting (Reward and Ounnishment) implies that the child's religious character is more competitive and more responsible for all his duties in carrying out values. religious values and tends to be reward and punishment oriented.